Attend enough meetings and you start to recognize the same people, regardless of the organization. The names change. The archetypes do not.

The Decider

The person who can actually make the call. Often the most senior person in the room. Contributes by listening, asking one clarifying question, and then making a decision. The meeting exists for this person. When they are absent, the meeting produces a recommendation that will be reviewed at a later meeting.

The Preparer

Read the pre-read. Has notes. Asks specific questions. Knows what they want to get out of the meeting. Represents approximately fifteen percent of attendees. The meeting would be better if this percentage were higher.

The Talker

Speaks frequently and at length. Not always wrong. Not always right. Fills silence with words, which is sometimes useful and sometimes the reason the meeting runs over. Contributes energy, which has value, and volume, which has diminishing returns.

The Silent Processor

Has not spoken in forty minutes. Is paying close attention. Will send a thoughtful follow-up email after the meeting that contains the most useful observation of the day. Often mistaken for disengaged. Actually the most engaged person in the room.

The Multitasker

Camera off. Typing audibly. Responds to questions with "sorry, can you repeat that?" Contributes their presence on the attendee list, which satisfies the organizer's need for quorum. Occasionally surfaces a useful point when something catches their attention.

The Devil's Advocate

Raises objections to every proposal. Sometimes the objections are valid and prevent bad decisions. Sometimes the objections are reflexive and slow down good ones. The room has learned to wait for the objection, address it briefly, and move on.

The Note Taker

Typing everything. Will produce a meeting summary that is more accurate than anyone's memory. Does not contribute verbally because they are busy documenting everyone else's contributions. Undervalued. Essential.

The Lurker

Was added to the invite "just to keep them in the loop." Has no role in the decision. Will not be assigned any action items. Is attending because declining felt awkward. Contributes nothing except a slightly higher headcount, which makes the meeting feel more important than it is.

The question: Which archetype are you in most meetings? The answer is worth knowing.

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